The foundation of who you and I are is sealed in the fiber of our being by parents, mentors, teachers, pastors, and friends. Psychologists tell us that personality is formed by age six. Core values that result in the shaping of our character are a vital part of the mix of the mortar used for the foundation of our life. These character traits are also framed and set at an early age.
Being taught the ways of God, according to Scripture is the rebar that strengthens that foundation. The "forms" used to determine the depth of the "slab" is vital. Christian parents and schools are accused of "brainwashing" children. Let's face it--the mind and heart of a child is an open page that will be filled with all sorts of information--depending on what they are exposed to. So, what will you stir into the mix of the mortar of your child's foundation? Truth and life sustaining Spiritual food, or emptiness and the ways of a corrupt world--the choices seem clear!
I'm not a builder and don't know a lot about construction--but I do know that the foundation is the most important part of a structure. If it is not laid right--the building will crumble and fall. Luke 6:46-49 Jesus gives a great example of how to build. Building on a rock brings a lasting structure, while building on sand results in collapse. It makes sense--but then Jesus always did!
If a physical building must have a proper foundation to stand--how much more important is it for us, for our children to have a solid foundation. If it is sure, even if something goes wrong with rest of the building--all is not lost. Repairs and restoration are possible when there is a rock-solid base. Restoring a house is only worthwhile if the foundation is strong.
So, "train up a child in the way they should go...." Will they always make the right decisions, shun what is wrong and destructive? Will they fall into harmful relationships? If they don't continue to follow the guidance and direction of the Holy Spirit--they may. The good news is, if you have, according to God's Word: (Deuteronomy, chapter 6), trained them in the ways of God--they will return and rebuild their life--because their foundation is right!
Then, there is a wonderful truth: The mercy of God comes into play in the life of anyone who seeks Him. Those with a good foundation can return if they stray--because of God's mercy. But, also those who have no solid base, can turn to Him and find forgiveness, mercy, and power to live a worthwhile life.
So, should we take careful purpose in training children in the ways of God? Absolutely! It's promised to be effective in God's Word. I treasure the way I was taught by my parents, grandparents and others who had a part in directing me on a path of serving God. Have I always been true to their teachings and examples? No, but because of their prayers and the foundation they laid in me, from the time of my birth, I'm able to follow God's path for my life.
I'll admit, I'm hung up on God's promises to families and the fact that God is very "family oriented". His Word bears this out. I live, breathe and rely on His promises:
"'As for me,' says the Lord, 'this is my covenant with them (you), My Spirit who is upon you, and my words which I have put in your mouth, shall not depart from your mouth, nor from the mouth of your descendants, nor from the mouth of your descendants' descendants', says the Lord, 'from this time and forevermore.'" Isaiah 59:21
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